Skip to main content

Grateful and Complaining?!

Daddy J recently commented, "I wish I was ambidextrous." "Why", I asked, bewildered. "With one good hand, it's almost impossible to change her diaper without messing up the place. Plus it would be easier to get that rice into her. I wonder how you hold her in one hand and stuff that food in with the other." "So how did you manage when I went out for 3 hours?" "I gave her milk."- with a triumphant smile!!!!
Everyone warned me that crawling days and walking days would bring along new and challenging exercise routines. And thanks to it, the old pair of jeans seem to fit again- yipie!

And compare notes, we must!
With new mommies:
-My son won't sit in one place for more than 10 seconds. Half the time, I am just hunting for him under tables and chairs.
-Mine broke a vase the other day and had the most 'paavam' look on her face. I didn't know whether to cry or scold her!
-He wants to pull everything- including people's clothes- it's so embarrassing ya!
-She can throw a ball- just that it falls behind her every time. It's quite funny.
-She was getting a taste of the door stopper. Diarrhoea now- what else!

With old mommies:
-O yes! I remember he used to be such a fanatic about milk. We had to be so careful in the night. If someone even touched him, he'd yell out for milk!
-She just wouldn't eat. There were times when I would give her chocolate for a meal- so desperate I was!
-He hated his stroller or so I thought.. until I realised he hated anything coloured green.
-I would pray so hard for her teeth.. they finally cropped up when she was almost 18 months old!
-His hair was so scanty, my mother was worried sick that it was probably because of the anti-histamines I took during my pregnancy!

Mine chews on everything she gets her hands on. And so my visit to the doctor's was but obviously due. And waiting in line before me was a mother with her child, probably about 8 years old and spastic. The child couldn't hold her head up, couldn't sit on her own and wailed uncontrollably in a drone. My tummy churned- for all the naughtiness that we 'complain' about, aren't our hearts inflated with pride? For all the tiring days that we dread, do we not secretly admire our little heroine's (or hero's) unlimited energy? Every time they refuse to eat, are we not pleasantly astonished at how easily they figured out our stupid tricks? Some kids are differently-abled. I won't dare wonder what their mothers 'complain' about... Just leaves me grateful for everything.

"She broke a toy at the doctor's office and then victoriously chewed on it...God, embarrassing!" And we'll continue to complain (and cherish)...

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Waves of Beauty

WAVES OF BEAUTY In the light of the candle I saw her. A glow so radiant that it was blinding; As it was scintillating. A bejeweled crown that shone As if it was her pride. Blackness all around Her dark body seemed to throw. A crimson tongue reeked of anger with weapons to aid. With a garland of skulls, Morbid seemed the goddess. Demons lay at her feet, Frightened by her strength. Her matted hair disheveled Like that of an ascetic. A goddess embodies grace, Is it not I wondered. Then why worship such ferocity, For peace is what prevails?! And then I looked at her eye, I take pride in my children, They seemed to say, Not arrogant by my strength. My blackness is my power, They seemed to say, An energy so potent That it encompasses all. My weapons will rise They seemed to say, When you sin. Devote yourself for good and you won’t stumble. Evil will be vanquished They seemed to say, In every age and ti...
Post a Comment
Read more

Secularism, Chauvinism, but Objective Hindu-ism?

In recent times I have realised that several people feel obliged to apologise; apologise for being Hindu, apologise for a ‘Hindu’ party winning the elections, updating status messages on facebook or tweeting that while they may be called Hindu, they should not be mistaken to be fundamentalists. ‘I am not a religious Hindu. I am secular!’ I was raised in a Tamil Brahmin household. I remember spending my afternoons hearing tales from the Siva Puranam, the Ramayana and the Mahabharatha from my grandmother. I remember learning to draw a 18-pulli Kolam , making strings of mango leaves for festivals, learning Carnatic music and bharathanatyam, making a compulsory visit to the puja room after a bath every morning. As a young child, the stories of Parvati or Rama were fascinating, festivals were a lot of fun, rituals were intriguing and practices were just that- a way of living. In my growing up years I asked a lot of questions- why do we do this? How will it matter if I don’t do thi...
Post a Comment
Read more

Andha Maan

We almost didn't go. But thankfully Passport Seva Kendra asked for a little too many things to get our complicated passport issue resolved. So there we were, Chennai bound; to go on to Paradise. Kala Paani, Sirai Chaalai, History text books- I vaguely remembered the gory history of Cellular Jail. It was far worse in real. The Hanging, the pits to collect dead bodies, the sadistic punishments... If you pooped more than a tiny earthen pot could take, you'd have to make more oil than you did everyday (which was an unreasonable 15 kilos). If you wanted more than 2 glasses of water (yes- the daily quota of water), go lick the Jamaadar's shoes dry. If you thought that all this made the freedom fighters stronger in will- get an Indian to torture another Indian, feed him food in an iron bowl- the rust will kill him anyway. We live in a time when many friends, even relatives are of different nationalities- British, Japanese, etc etc. After all these years, it seems ridiculous t...
Post a Comment
Read more